Monday, 26 May 2008

On being middle aged.


Dewar's Folly, Holyrood.
Wandered into the Capital today to look at Betty Windsor's collection of Italian Renaissance art at Holyrood (plebs admitted for £5). Lunched al fresco on the stone seats opposite Dewar's Folly (aka The House of Fun) courtesy of Jesse Boot's lunchtime special (buy 5, get 1 free). Reflected that it must be early summer in Edinburgh, as you can sit out comfortably in a light jacket and the air is rent with the pleasant twitter of the first migrant Japanese tourists of the season. As I munched contentedly on my prawn sandwich, I realised that I was sitting dressed in the summer plumage of the off duty, faux-hip cleric in early middle age - jacket and shirt from M & S, Armani jeans, shoes from Next and prescription shades by Police. I have become the Betjeman-esque clerical ruin I was intended by nature, nurture and grace to be. Middle class (by salary), middle aged (by default) and middle brow (by nature). And I don't care. I'm comfortable with it. I feel no pain or angst at ceasing to be a bright young thing (now at any rate) and am happy to enjoy being in my own skin. I may never go gentle into that good night, but I'm happy to bask in the early afternoon sunshine today.

4 comments:

  1. I don't know about middle aged, but I certainly think you're having a 'senior moment', Dougal! Are the parish clergy really middle class by salary? Surely not?

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  2. We are when you add in the fringe benefits of housing and council tax.

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  3. Eeek - my old man will be turning in his grave at the very thought of raising a middle class boy!

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  4. I think being middle aged is great: don't care any more what people think, no image to keep up, free to be the way we want to be - brilliant! How long can we make it last though? 70? 80? I refuse to believe 60 since I have only a few months to go . . .

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